A Writer's Dream

Sitting in a comfortable chair with a new laptop in a WI-FI environment
Books and magazines all around
An online address/phone book of contacts for interviews
A digital voice recorder for conducting them
A beautiful, scenic place where solitude can be found
But where the hustle-bustle of life is nearby to collect inspiration

5-Mile Radius

A co-worker recently told me that her goal is to be able to go everywhere she needs to go within a 5-mile radius of her home. I concur.

I want to walk to the grocery store, the cafe, the park, the swimming pool, a friend's house, my workplace. I want to pedestrianize my life - to save time, to save money, and to savor the moments of my life with my family.

My Ideal Work Environment

• Fast-paced
• Highly social
• Action-oriented (not sitting at a desk—walking around, going new places, etc.)
• Clean, fun, bright, colorful imaginative environment
• The ability to help people and make a difference in society
• To be in charge of my own domain
• Meeting new people
• Co-workers who are compassionate, intelligent, focused, and organized
• Good Salary
• Opportunities for professional development
• Flexible schedule/self-paced (work is done = go home, work from home, on-assignment, etc.)
• Free gym or fitness center on-site or nearby
• Restaurant/café w/ nutritional choices on-site or nearby
• Casual dress 3+ days
• “fame”/presence within the local community
• workplace near my home and my husband (5 minutes or less, preferably within walking distance)
• Family-friendly - ability to bring my children to work
  

Authors I Admire

Sheldon Vanauken for his intensely personal and deeply moving portrayals of love and faith
C.S. Lewis for his intellectual and truth-filled compositions
T.S. Eliot for his obscure, beautifully arranged poetry and his mastery of the English language
Lauren Winner for her honest and well-crafted musings
Robin Jones Gunn for her fun style of writing - easy to read and enjoy

I hope someday to infuse some of their brilliance in to my own writing.

Other Blogs

I began four blogs in early January as an experiment and now I have decided to keep two of the four. Adventures of SS and Metropolitan Mama will live on, while YW City and Bookish Babe in the City will be laid to rest.

I will be transplanting some of my favorite postings from BB to this blog...I apologize in advance if you subscribed to all four and thus will have to read repeated posts. Don't worry - new ones are on their way.

Thanks to readers across the U.S.

Ph.D. Update

Here's the latest. I met with four people in the Retailing & Consumer Sciences Department last week. The Chair was especially hospitable and kind, but I'm not sure the program is the right fit.

I am also slated to meet with six people from the Communication Department in the next two weeks and I will attend a half-day conference with the Marketing Department in late March.

At the moment, my first choice is Communication with a minor in Marketing or Public Health.

Etiquette for Wish Lists and Registries

The very first gift registry program was created by Marshall Fields in 1924 - and etiquette gurus responded with fury and fire. They retorted that such an idea was unmannerly and rude. In fact, some Emily Post-types still discourage including "we're registered at..." cards in wedding and baby shower invitations.

And I am here to say "pooh pooh" (as Madeline said to a tiger in the classic childrens book of the same name by Ludwig Bemelmans) on such advice.

Company registries and wish lists are a wonderful creation. How convenient it is for a guest to waltz down aisle 2A to a pre-selected, "perfect" gift for a happy couple or pregnant co-worker. The guest is relieved of hours of uncertain shopping - and, of course, the recipient is overjoyed at getting something they need.

All this to say - if you are planning to invite me to your birthday, wedding, anniversary, or baby shower, please do send along the registry and/or wish list cards and/or website links. I won't be the least bit offended.

In fact, more companies should offer birthday wishlists. I'd love to log on and buy a gift for an unsuspecting friend or family member.

P.S. Want to see my wish list? Log on to www.amazon.com and search for my wish list by typing in my first and last name...